This treasured male organ is arguably the most complicated, and least understood, piece of a chap’s body. Nevertheless, the knowledge of the factors controlling its rise and fall - whether it will puff out its chest and stand proud or burrow into the folds of the bollocks – can bestow ladies with a level of power that could dwarf the wizardry of Hermione in the Harry Potter films.
So here it is, the woman’s guide to how to control your man’s erection. Used wisely, your partner’s todger will inflate or deflate as you so wish, like a balloon permanently attached to your pump.
1. Flirting & teasingSubtle flirting, with your beloved and other men, can send a tidal wave of blood towards your partner’s willy.
Sitting next to your dearest on the settee in the evening, clad only in a silky negligee, can often achieve good results. Importantly, he must know that you are not wearing any underwear; even though he’s seen your lady bits a thousand times, the knowledge of what is hiding a few inch above a flowery hemline can send the male of the species into a frenzy.
As for other men, an awareness that you can still attract testosterone-fuelled attention can be a turn on – maybe it’s something to do with a primitive instinct to compete for access to the on-heat female. The sight of the plumber glancing at Mrs Jones’ luscious arse, or a breast wobble, certainly can get my heater running, and I’m sure this doesn’t just apply to me. Does it? Really?
2. Pre-sex comments
When sexual activity is imminent, and the man lets the beast out of the cage – or in my case, when I seductively slip out of my off-white, gusset-worn briefs – the woman’s immediate reaction can determine whether it’s going to be a lusty marathon of uninhibited passion or a floppy 60-metre dash.
Facial expressions conveying awe are always welcome, particularly when accompanied by comments implying that the item swinging between the man’s legs is big enough to do some harm if driven by an irresponsible owner; ‘wow, what’s got into that big boy’ or ‘be gentle with me’ never fail to encourage further engorgement of the male organ.
In contrast, statements often used in response to a baby or a puppy – ‘ah look at him, how cute’ or ‘isn’t he adorable’ – will ensure the meat shrivels as quickly as a salted slug.
4. Grasp his weapon with both hands
Irrespective of what the agony-aunts say, size matters. At least it does in the male mind, where a belief that heavy weaponry will be involved is essential to sustain an erection.
So, ladies, when you grab his willy don’t use a finger and thumb; that gives the impression of micro work, like threading cotton through a needle. Instead grab his todger with both hands, one above the other, as if about to climb a rope. Granted, in my case this may require David-Blaine-like illusionary skills and a degree of finger dexterity worthy of a professional hand-puppeteer, but the deception will always be rewarded with enhanced sexual performance.
5. Mid-coitus noisesIn the midst of sexual abandon, orgasmic female cries – genuine or otherwise – will keep the phallic embers burning. Silence gives the impression (probably accurate in Mrs Jones’ case) that the lady’s mind has drifted and rather than being immersed in the pleasure of your lusty lunges, she is instead considering what colour of varnish she’ll put on her nails in the morning.
And some mid-sex comments must be avoided. Speaking from personal experience, guaranteed willy-softeners include: ‘Are you in yet?’; ‘Can you keep your mouth shut, you’re spitting all over me’; and ‘Will you cut your toe-nails – they’re like fucking talons!’.
6. Skin scratchingUrgent clawing of the male buttocks indicates that the lady is enjoying herself and, as such, sustains the blood flow to man’s fifth limb. Superficial scratches down the back - as long as they don’t cause haemorrhage and divert blood flow from where it’s most needed – are also helpful in instilling the primitive, animalistic dimension to the sexual act that men find so arousing.
A definite no-no, however, is inflicting pain on the meat and two veg. Ballocks are meant to be caressed and cradled, not grabbed and twisted. And fingernails piercing the todger is a sure-fire way of transforming a throbbing phallus into a wet straw.
So, ladies, there you have it; the knowledge and power to forever control the male member. What better skill could you wish for? Your welcome.
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"Be gentle with me"---yep, I've said that a time or two. Favorite comment---the salted slug. I need to remember that one. Brilliant as always!ReplyDelete
I pinch enough of your sayings, Marcia, so you're welcome to grab the occasional phrase that takes your fancy!Delete
Some of this valuable information should be kept top secret to prevent it from falling into the wrong hands. Of course it's wonderful falling into the "right" hands. happy weekend.ReplyDelete
I've always relished falling into the right hands, Stephen!Delete
So...SHE'S supposed to wear the negligee?ReplyDelete
Gonna have to change my notes.
Whatever floats your boat, Al!Delete
Every single person in the world should read this piece! This is something all should know, there's no doubt about that.ReplyDelete
I agree, Mike - this should be universal knowledge (or at least known to all heterosexual females).Delete
The meat and two veg. That is hilarious! You have such a way with words!ReplyDelete
Thank you, Pam. Your support and interest is much appreciated.Delete
If this post isn't published as an eBook entitled "Woodworking for ladies," I shall be thoroughly disappointed!ReplyDelete
I love it! 'Woodworking for ladies' - why didn't I think of that as a title for this post, damn it!Delete
**Will you cut your toe-nails – they’re like fucking talons!**ReplyDelete
Thank you for the education and the giggle, sweets!
Love from Duluth.
My pleasure. Take care.Delete